aite..i have no idea why im blogging about this but deal with me people,i have been listening to a few break up stories and i have no idea why they find me when they facing this problems but they do sigh..its depressing to listens to all this but when they need someone to listens to their problems,adlan will be there eventually xD..Sometimes i even think that my past relationship was a failure myself..Oh well,im going to tell 3short stories and no worries people,i'll tell the synopsis kay? =)...
Story 1 : Is age is just a number?well,for my friend here it is because she fall in love with this guy who is twice her age!!yes people,I'm not kidding about this..She met this fella some time back then and she fall for him as soon as she see him and I'm surprise that "Love in first sight" still happened in this era huh?well,despite all the advices her friends gave her she just ignore it because many of them think she won't get anything out of this..But at times she just felt that she is the one who is falling in love and don't think this fella is loving her at all xD..But after thinking over it,she doesn't mind and still want to continue with what she is doing now and to me,i felt that is such a pity thing to do when you love someone and don't even think he loves you back sigh...well,love is blind isn't it??all i can do is wish you luck in whatever you're doing..
Story 2 : There is no guarantee that you'll live life together even having years of relationship..This couple,both of them are my friends and the guy always think that his girl neglect him with her busy study schedules and assignments (i guess it's normal in college life) till one fine day he can't take it no more,he ended the 5years relationship he had and surprisingly to me,he hook up with a student exchange from Switzerland because he thinks this new girl knows him better than his ex xD..One thing bugging my mind about couples this day is why do you hook up with a person if you never think that she is the one for you and that consists of that person loves you and knows you well??sigh..its such a pity scenario to think of actually xD..and one day his ex called me up to know why he reacts this way so after explaining everything her she broke to tears (gosh,how i hate girls crying) on the phone and she regrets for what she done and really wants him back so badly but i guess after you loose something,its hard to get it back the way you wanted it...so people,'treasure' is the word.
Story 3 : Do anyone trust in long distance relationship?If to people who don't im sorry to say you all are bullshit-ing xD..Loving a person is also about trusting someone so what is the problem?Oh well,back to the story...it all happened when my this friend got back from aussie for her holidays...When the first time i got to know they were together,i was happy because to me,they were the couple made in heaven and to just simplify things,the guy is willing to go all the way to pick her up and the girl is willing to jump over her house gate to go out with him =)..well,when its time for her to go back to aussie,the both of them was still fine but as time goes by,the guy feeling the loneliness without her by his side so as all humans make mistakes,he have another girl..somehow he thought the aussie girl didn't know about it (actually she knew it all along) and when she ask,he keeps denying till one day he can't deny no more and he told the truth and once a perfect relationship he had just clashed right in front of his eyes and he i know,he never felt so regret in his life losing something till that day...Oh well,humans never feel regret losing something they treasure or love till they loose it and even one of my friend said about him that "His heart belongs to the aussie girl but his body belongs to the malaysian girl" (sorry,i can't mention any names so hope you all still understand the stories aite?)..
Well well,that is the conclusion of my 3 sad love stories and to me,having a relationship or even loving someone is not that hard actually..Once upon a time i did have a relationship that somehow along the road it turn sour and even myself back then and i couldn't let her go till somehow i thought it through,even though its hard to let go someone you love but for the good of both people,letting her go and wish her all the best for her life is the only best options you left actually =)...Love to me is like a "two way traffic",you need both people to love/care/trust each other and i hate about people being with each other just for 'BENEFITS'..What the hell,you're being together for just benefits?im not going to elaborate about the 'benefits' terms and hope you people understand what benefits was i talking about...To me,nothing guarantees you'll be forever with the girl you're in a relationship so i will treasure every moment or every seconds being together with her and not forgetting loving that very person with all your heart,as much as you can possibly give because to me,that's the least i could do and give her...
Story 1 : Is age is just a number?well,for my friend here it is because she fall in love with this guy who is twice her age!!yes people,I'm not kidding about this..She met this fella some time back then and she fall for him as soon as she see him and I'm surprise that "Love in first sight" still happened in this era huh?well,despite all the advices her friends gave her she just ignore it because many of them think she won't get anything out of this..But at times she just felt that she is the one who is falling in love and don't think this fella is loving her at all xD..But after thinking over it,she doesn't mind and still want to continue with what she is doing now and to me,i felt that is such a pity thing to do when you love someone and don't even think he loves you back sigh...well,love is blind isn't it??all i can do is wish you luck in whatever you're doing..
Story 2 : There is no guarantee that you'll live life together even having years of relationship..This couple,both of them are my friends and the guy always think that his girl neglect him with her busy study schedules and assignments (i guess it's normal in college life) till one fine day he can't take it no more,he ended the 5years relationship he had and surprisingly to me,he hook up with a student exchange from Switzerland because he thinks this new girl knows him better than his ex xD..One thing bugging my mind about couples this day is why do you hook up with a person if you never think that she is the one for you and that consists of that person loves you and knows you well??sigh..its such a pity scenario to think of actually xD..and one day his ex called me up to know why he reacts this way so after explaining everything her she broke to tears (gosh,how i hate girls crying) on the phone and she regrets for what she done and really wants him back so badly but i guess after you loose something,its hard to get it back the way you wanted it...so people,'treasure' is the word.
Story 3 : Do anyone trust in long distance relationship?If to people who don't im sorry to say you all are bullshit-ing xD..Loving a person is also about trusting someone so what is the problem?Oh well,back to the story...it all happened when my this friend got back from aussie for her holidays...When the first time i got to know they were together,i was happy because to me,they were the couple made in heaven and to just simplify things,the guy is willing to go all the way to pick her up and the girl is willing to jump over her house gate to go out with him =)..well,when its time for her to go back to aussie,the both of them was still fine but as time goes by,the guy feeling the loneliness without her by his side so as all humans make mistakes,he have another girl..somehow he thought the aussie girl didn't know about it (actually she knew it all along) and when she ask,he keeps denying till one day he can't deny no more and he told the truth and once a perfect relationship he had just clashed right in front of his eyes and he i know,he never felt so regret in his life losing something till that day...Oh well,humans never feel regret losing something they treasure or love till they loose it and even one of my friend said about him that "His heart belongs to the aussie girl but his body belongs to the malaysian girl" (sorry,i can't mention any names so hope you all still understand the stories aite?)..
Well well,that is the conclusion of my 3 sad love stories and to me,having a relationship or even loving someone is not that hard actually..Once upon a time i did have a relationship that somehow along the road it turn sour and even myself back then and i couldn't let her go till somehow i thought it through,even though its hard to let go someone you love but for the good of both people,letting her go and wish her all the best for her life is the only best options you left actually =)...Love to me is like a "two way traffic",you need both people to love/care/trust each other and i hate about people being with each other just for 'BENEFITS'..What the hell,you're being together for just benefits?im not going to elaborate about the 'benefits' terms and hope you people understand what benefits was i talking about...To me,nothing guarantees you'll be forever with the girl you're in a relationship so i will treasure every moment or every seconds being together with her and not forgetting loving that very person with all your heart,as much as you can possibly give because to me,that's the least i could do and give her...
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